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    September 23

    work notes

    23/09/09
    Today we had a meeting from 8:30-11:00 am, which was the longest one i had ever. All interns presented how far the projects was going and what problems we came up during last 2 weeks. It was really great that all of us were sharing knowlwdge and experiences.


    I am currently focusing on the Food Festvial, which is also my interest, as i am this kind of person who likes travel for food and other entertainment. And i personally love good and local food ALOT!!! have been searching many festivals from Canada, UK, etc, it seems that people are happy enough as long as there are cheap but good food, beer and music. But i will have to come up some ideas about how to organize this 3-day big events. Gonna talk to some important person who has experiences and network in this field next week and make some sort of business plan. I will also have to visit many restaurants and hotels to ask if they can participate in the festival.
    Meanwhile, i am almost painful about my own project. Haven't read any theory yet so i am far behind the schedule. Gonna be very busy in the coming weeks :(

    Here are some pics of my working place.




    entrance to the office



     my messy table, i use my own computer because i can do whatever i want. The table can be lifted up and down.





    some other angles. my moss is sitting just opposite me with the computer on the left of the pic.

    September 20

    转 " 女人爱问的几个问题和标准答案 "

    觉得作者很厉害,很了解女人,赞一个!


    问题一:你爱我吗?
    错误答案A:"爱。"
    错误答案B:"这还用问吗?"
    错误答案C:"你烦不烦啊?
    标准答案:目光怜爱的望着对方三秒,然后神情郑重的点一下头,同时发出"嗯"的声音,然后一把把她揽在怀里......
    解 析:答案A会让她觉得你太不严肃了,纯粹胡弄她;答案B会让她觉得你对她的爱不够坚定,而且她一定会喋喋不休的问到底,让你给她明确的答案,够你烦的;答 案C过后一定是一顿大架或冷战。其实女人对男人是不是爱她这件事儿心里特有数,她这么问纯粹就是撒娇调情,你抱抱她亲亲她比回答什么都让她高兴。
     自:Club.ChinaRen.com

    问题二:你看我这件衣服好看吗?
    错误答案A:"挺好看的。"
    错误答案B:"还行。"
    错误答案C:"真好看,我老婆穿什么都好看。"
    标准答案:来来来,转一圈让我看看......"待她害羞的转完一圈后,把她拉过来,拉着她的手微笑的看着他说:"真挺好看的。
    解析:答案A会让她觉得你应付她;答案B会让她觉得没自信,在她心里她穿什么你都应该觉得好;可是如果真说好看,像答案C一样她又会觉得你花言巧语不真诚。所以啊,你要表示出对她提的这个问题的认真程度,必须要仔细的看看再说。
     自:Club.ChinaRen.com

    问题三:在她把她的闺蜜介绍给你认识之后,回到家她问:"你觉得我这朋友怎么样啊?"
    错误答案A:"挺漂亮的。"
    错误答案B:"不怎么样,比你差远了。"
    错误答案C:"我都没怎么注意她。"
    标准答案:我觉得她对你挺真诚的,应该好好珍惜这样的朋友。
    解 析:答案A纯粹是没事儿找抽型的,女人是绝不能允许你在她面前说别的女人好的(当然,母亲除外。);答案B听着就太假了;答案C你一定觉得回答得挺高明的 吧,她压根儿就不会信,而且她会展开想像分析你为什么不愿意对她的朋友进行评价。所以,要避开问题,转个弯儿回答,让她觉得你一切都是为她着想,她会有被 呵护照顾的感觉。
     自:Club.ChinaRen.com

    问题四:你觉得我胖了吗?
    错误答案A:"没胖。"
    错误答案B:"好像是胖了。"
    错误答案C:"呦,是不是最近太累啊,怎么都瘦成这样了?"
    标准答案:过来让我抱抱,等抱过之后你再说:我就喜欢你这样的,有点肉。
    解 析:答案A回答得太干脆了吧,她听着不过瘾。答案B纯属找骂,女孩子怎么能喜欢听别人说她胖呢?即使你再三强调你喜欢胖的,她还会不高兴;答案C听着都那 么虚伪,现在的女人哪那么好蒙啊。其实,在女人的心里,她还是希望男人不在乎她的胖瘦,虽然嘴上说为了你减肥,其实是为了自己更漂亮,能穿更多好看的衣 服。所以你用肢体语言表示出你喜欢她有点儿肉就可以了。
     自:Club.ChinaRen.com

    问题五:我和你前女友比起来,你更喜欢哪一个?
    错误答案A:"废话,当然是你了,要不然干吗跟你在一起。"
    错误答案B:"嗯,怎么说呢,如果让我说实话,各有千秋吧。"
    错误答案C:"她比你差远了。"
    标准答案:狠狠的咬她一口或亲她一下或捏她的小脸蛋,等到她撒娇的嗷嗷叫的时候你就说:"下次再问这种无聊的问题,还得这么惩罚你。"
    解 析:答案A也太生硬直接了吧,她接下来就会问:"那你以后碰见比我好的是不是也得把我踹了啊?"答案B您就等着分手吧,忒实在了也。答案C听上去还不错, 但你这不是抽自己嘴巴嘛,你说自己前女友不好会让女人很得意而降低了你自己的身价。其实在女人心里,她特别希望你的前女友是个特别优秀的女人,而偏偏是你 不愿意跟她好了,这样女人心里会有成就感的。可是你又不能直接说前女友有多好,所以就用她喜欢的方式来回避问题吧(至于她是喜欢你捏她的脸蛋儿还是咬她一 口我们就不知道了)。
     自:Club.ChinaRen.com

    问题六:如果我和你妈妈同时掉进水里,你会救哪一个?
    错误答案A:"你有聊无聊啊?"
    错误答案B:"一块儿救。"
    错误答案C:"宝贝儿,别难为我,再说这种情况也不会发生的。"
    标准答案:哦,我没告诉你吧,我妈是游泳健将。
    解析:虽说问这个问题确实很无聊但你也不能像答案A那样,这会引来喋喋不休的争吵;答案B她一定会不甘心的追问下去,你不想清静清静吗?答案C听上去还不错,但还是很牵强。不如就幽默一回,别让她一天到晚的老杞人忧天没事儿找事儿了。
     自:Club.ChinaRen.com

    问题七:如果我老了难看了你还会爱我吗?
    错误答案A:"不可能,你老了也好看。"
    错误答案B:"女人不同的年龄段有不同年龄段的魅力......"
    错误答案C:"没事儿,你老了我也好不到哪儿去,咱俩谁也别嫌弃谁。"
    标准答案:我巴不得你难看点儿老点儿呢,这样放在家里多放心啊。
    解析:答案A她听着也高兴,但心里知道这是绝对不可能的;答案B就赶紧打住吧,唐僧来了;答案C不就说她老了肯定不好看了嘛,她怎么能接受呢?所以啊,最聪明的答案就是既让她打消顾虑又让她知道你特别在意她特别怕失去她

    September 15

    weird meeting..

    15/09/09

    Just back home from a truly weird and confusing meeting with those municipality guys. Yeah, I did the presentation as the Schedule planned and i have been working for it during the last 2 weeks. However, there were no comments on my inspiration ideas at all. It was their idea that i supposed to find events related to the nature and the stream in the national park, the best would be something floating on the water. And i do think my lantern idea matched this theme perfectly.

    However, the meeting ended up with a plan that they will invite some local or national or even international artists in the next month and  stop the current culture event project for a while - one month? or longer? or forever?  Nobody knows...

    How can they change things so easily? And make my work worthless?

    Now i have to change my project to some new field, which probably is promoting all the products they could have to the 3 day festival, if i get the concept right. It means that i have to know all the projects that other interns are handling with very well and make some sort of plans. >_< I am not a super talent girl who is supposed to know everything!!!咬牙切齿

    I am getting lost now as i dont know what is going on with my own project and i have no idea about other projects as well. Feel quite helpless but it is enough for it today. Hope to figure something out tomorrow...


    September 13

    working note 4

    11/09/09  911

    Today all the interns have a meeting with our boss Carsten. Of course the meeting starts with coffee and cake as usual. Carsten introduces the stakeholders and all the information about the National Park, and promises that we will have a trip to NP very soon. Everyone is excited by this news :D
    Then it follows our self-introducing and the projects we are dealing with. It is also the time that we are sharing our questions, ideas and knowledge.The meeting is animated and full of fun. I like my work, which is much better than the lectures in university...



    September 10

    working note 3

    10/09/09 The teacher's day.

    Today i had a meeting with my boss and another employee from the kommune at 2 pm discussing what i'v found about the culture events. Again the meeting started with cake, as each Thursday afternoon there are free cakes!!! I have to mention again that i do love danish working enviorment.
    I picked up 5 of the "best ideas" and presented while showing the color printed photos. My best idea were: The Great Fish day in Iceland, Chinese Sky Lanterns, Chinese Water Lanterns, Chinese Dragon Boat Festival, and the Music Water, all of which are related to the stream and the nature of the National Park.  Well, i searched lots of culture events in Europe, but most of them are about concerts, dancing, drinking, movies... which do not meet my boss' principle. He wants something special and different.

    My boss and the another girl were very impressed when i showed the photos of Sky Lanterns and Water Lanterns. They said they have never seen this kind of things before and the photos were truly beautiful and very awsome! Also the Music water, they known there was a little one in Tivoli, however, it isn't as impressive as the ones i showed. Haha, the reason is that all photos i gathered are originally from China and we know all Chinese events are huge :D
    Im happy that they liked my idea and asked me to do a presentation for other people in the municipality next Tuesday. Meanwhile, i am asked to collect more photos and impress other bosses. So i have to work little bit at weekend.

    Well, bad thing is that my office computer was taken by some other guy 咬牙切齿 so i have to bring my own computer from tomorrow! Weird!! i will have to carry the laptop all day then!! Good thing is that all interns who work in the office will be offered the free lunch buffet from next monday. So i will save 20 kr. each day 热烈的笑脸

    Here are part of the photos i've showed during the meeting.






    sky lanterns



    Water lanterns

    Friday is coming! Can't wait to go back to Aalborg :D

    PS: why there are not so many people visit my space anymore since i started to write in English?!失望


    September 07

    working notes

    day 4 - 07/09/09

    Basically im doing the same thing as what i did 2 days ago. But i am told that there are free fruits that i can have during the whole day :D exciting news, right?! There are bananas, grapes, apples, pears, etc. all you can see in the shops here. So far i think the working environment is so good.
    I met my boss' secretary, who is an old lady just has been to China last year. She was little excited to show all the places she visited after she knows that im from China, as she printed out her China trips intentionally and shared her experiences while i was having coffee break.

    I am getting little bit nervous now since there haven't been any good ideas came up to my mind. But i still arranged a meeting with my boss that i would like to discuss what i will find on this Thursday so that i could get enough searching time for the next week presentation,which is also my own idea, as i think a presentation may bring the whole group who work for this project some inspiration. Sometimes I need to give myself  pressure to spur myself  keep on going...

    September 04

    working notes.

    day 2
     
    The first day at office, i was already very tired after only few hours. My back hurts and i couldnt even concentrate surfing internet. Good thing was that i could try out the Coffee machine, which has about 15 kinds of coffe drinks. i constantly tried one and another and ended up with 7 or more cups of coffee  and 3 cups of tea before i was out of work.
    Gerally speakng, the first office day wasnt so busy. After i arrived there, one secretary, a young guy called Hennrik, guided me around the whole buidling and met all the staff. There are departments in charge of the infrastructure of the community, wind power program, economics and business investment and culture. What i did was mainly googling everything while drinking tea or coffee, or checking FB, Xiaonei and some news. It was almost the same thing i would do at home. The working environment was rather free. I could have break whenever i want, in addtion to the morning break at 9 am and lunch break at 12. There were free break, cheese, butter and some vegetables during morning break, when people from different department sitting together and have a short talk. During lunch time I can either eat own lunch or have lunch buffet at kantine with only 20 kr. There were different kinds of free tea and coffee availble for the whole day. Around 3pm most of people left to home, so did I.
     
    day 3
     
    Today i got my own table with computer and phone. I feel like i am a real worker right now. My main work was still googling and trying to find some impressive, sucessful culture events in other places. Well, most of time i was checking news and FB while tasting the remaining kinds of coffee and tea:P
    At 2pm everybody was running home because it is Friday :D
     
    September 02

    first day internship

    After the alarm rang twice, i struggled to get up at 6:30 with tired body. Then i hurried to take shower and a simple breakfast..Around 7:45 my Danish buddy+classmate Anne drove me to meet my boss Carsten, who later on showed that he is very friendly and talktive. Then my boss drove me to Herning, a small city about 60km away from Ringkøbing, as we had to  meet some people from Herning kommune.
     
    The meeting started with warm coffee and danish bread (there is a certain name of it). This is a very common way the Danes do when starting everything and i do appreciate it. After coffee, we had short introduction of ourselves. I was surprised that some of them were interested in my background. Then my boss guided the meeting into real themes, which are all about the national park in Ringkøbing as well as how to combine culture events with the national park festival. However, the funny thing is that they haven't figure out what kind of culture events they should have yet, so the following discussion was about the possibilities of the events and how to spend the budget. Finally i got my task for next week that i have to search all good culture events from all over the world combing with their local nature so that they can have some inspirations from that. Sounds simple work cause i can just google everything but at the same time it is time-consuming...
     
    From tomorrow i will go to office evey day and  spend at least 30 hours per week, even though my boss said that it is not necessary with the hours i spend in office and they wouldnt check so seriously. I got my own tables with computer, telephone and stuff so my real work starts NOW! Im kinda curious and excited by real job cause i had no such experience before. However, i do remember what my friends said to me about the office work that after only few days , you can feel each hour is like one whole day because it is so borning! Well this is my first time try and it is in Denmark, so i still got enthusiasm for it. Let's see what will happen.
     
    Everything is new and i still cant smell the familarities around me, but i hope i can get used to the life here and know some nice people, especially those who can make good cakes :D
    Jeg savner Aalborg...
     
    September 01

    new "home"


    刚刚搬到丹麦西边的 Ringkøbing,真正明白设么叫小城市,也明白为设么Aalborg是丹麦的大城市了~ 这里的超市居然7点就关门了,我还踩着Aalborg 8点的时间晃去呢。。。
     
    来的一路上转了2次火车,经常做到最后整个火车就我一个人,静悄悄的吓人~要不就是火车站方圆1里没有声音,害怕得哪出 杏仁来嚼~
     
    住的地方很好很满意,房间很舒适,而且被子,靠椅都齐全,连靠椅套都是全新的~ 洗手间和我原来的比叫奢侈阿~~整个Campus 都是给实习的或者是给公司作项目的人住,所以可以说大家都在一条船上了,所以彼此都很友好~ 住的Campus 很大,很干净,厨房都有洗碗机~
     
     
     
     
    空无一人的某火车站
     
    我的房间
     
     
    窗外风景~
     
    过几天传下这个Career Campus的照片~
     
    感叹下2个月的假期就结束了。。。还是准备好好实习吧~~~